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Poor little Massena. Crime is up, the mall is about to close. Jobs are being lost. Even Tony's Pizza closed! Now comes word that Massena landed at spot (30 out of 50 towns and cities) on a real estate blog citing the Most Dangerous Places in New York State (Buffalo, Rochester and Syracuse are, of course, also on there), but MASSENA? Who would have ever thought? Unfortunately, it is getting worse there. Mayor Tim (Timmy ~ that's apparently his legal name...) Currier, who is a couple of years younger than me and married to a girl who lived across from us on Roosevelt Street, put out a rebuttal of the categorization, but he can't hide the fact that there are tons of drugs and petty (and major) crimes happening there. So sad. I've said it before: Massena is not the same place I grew up in, but, truthfully, it is much like other towns who have lost industry and jobs over the years. It is a tale all too common these days. I feel bad for all the good folks who are trying t...

I have a confession to make: I did not go to church this morning and chose instead to finish a book I've been reading, eat a delicious grilled sticky bun, and enjoy my Hazelnut/Blueberry/French Toast coffee, all wrapped up in a fluffy blanket with a Yankee Candle burning nearby. I might not have gotten my butt out of the house to go to church, but it did make for a heavenly Sunday... Anyway, there has not been much going on to write about. We continue to juggle getting too and from work with just one car, the weather has been heinous (cold, snowy), and I'm counting the days until spring...you know, just the usual winter blather.  There are signs of spring here and there. Nic went yesterday for her first wedding dress fitting. I think she's getting a little nervous now...it's becoming real! I've make my travel plans to go to New Orleans for the NAGAP conference the first week in April, Cam is probably going to North Carolina for spring training toward the end ...

Tomorrow I head back to work after a quick three weeks of recovery. I am feeling great! Not much to write blog-wise, mostly just sitting around and reading (which actually has its disadvantages as my back gets sore and I don't sleep as well at night since I'm not exerting a lot of energy ~ poor me!). But, there are a couple of noteworthy things to report. Cam is (finally) back at school, having started his spring term classes yesterday. Wow, six weeks was a long time to be off. Seriously. The reason RIT goes back so late is because they have a three-week winter term. Last week on Tuesday Cam took the Megabus to New York to visit Shaina so that kind of broke up the monotony for him (and me!). On Thursday, Mark and I headed down to DC to visit Mom and take her the Honda CRV. Her car would not pass inspection...and we were thinking of moving on from the CRV...so the timing was perfect. Except that last night we ordered a new Subaru Outback that will not arrive for 8-10 weeks. ...

Today I had my follow up with the surgeon and am doing great in my recovery. I can return to work (I picked Wednesday, January 28) and can drive again. The best news...NO CANCER in the uterine/ovarian tissue. YAY! I feel like I can breathe easy now knowing that the two areas of the BRCA1 gene most affected have been taken care of. Boy, do I need a vacation - a statement that has absolutely nothing to do with the fact that I've been sitting around for a week. I need the OTHER kind of vacation; the kind that involves sun, a pool, and mojitos!

While I would love to be independently wealthy and not have to work, there is definitely a difference with the restrictions that come when you are recuperating from surgery vs. having the means to travel the world in your free time. I am a week out of surgery and soooo bored. I have a lot to watch and tons to read, but I'm trying to get up from the chair a lot as I need to keep my activity level up to 1) not be sore from sitting, and 2) be able to sleep soundly at night. I'm feeling well and no longer taking pain killers, but my appetite is not great (probably due to little activity!). I'm thinking today I may have Cam take me over to the Red Bird Market to pick up a couple of items and just GET OUT! I good problem to have, I suppose.

I am on the other side of my hysterectomy, recovering in the fluffy chair next to the fire. I'm glad that's over! The procedure was a little more involved than expected due to my uterus being enlarged and my fallopian tubes being freakishly "stuck" to my uterus. As a result, the surgeon had to make a small incision to get all the junk out, but now, although sore, I'm on the mend. The stay at the hospital was crazy as they were in an overflow situation and I, along with eight other "boarders," spent the night in the post-op recovery area since there were no beds (bad flu season). Noisy and bright, with the lights on all night. I'm sure it will take me a couple of days to catch up on my sleep! The good news: the preliminary results show no cancer. They will now do the deep dive into the tissue to be sure, so I'm hoping for definitive good news when I go for my post-op appointment on January 15. I'm feeling very optimistic, though, and read...